You have to choose how you want to be treated. Do you want to be someone’s pet or do you want to matter and have your own voice? By that I mean, you don’t go around giving people the impression that they can trod you underfoot and you’ll be okay with it. No.
You must not be a noise maker or carry a placard saying, I don’t take trash but you can start by not disregarding some societal constructs. If you have a dream, chase it. If you don’t have one, start dreaming. If you wanna be a boss, work and become one.
Be smart, earn a living. Don’t be a pretty face waiting for someone to adopt you as part of his acquisition because he’ll definitely treat like one if he’s not a good guy.
Don’t just do things because you’re supposed to, be convinced about what you’re told to do. Have an opinion, your opinion. Know who you are, value yourself.
Think highly of yourself and love yourself because that’s the only way you can recognize it someone loves you.
Don’t and I mean NEVER think that someone is doing you a favor by being with you. If they’re treating you that way or saying things that suggest that to you, just know that it’s trashy. And you know what to do with trash..
Let the only standards you’re trying to measure up to be the ones you set for you, not the ones society or people around are suggesting or pressuring you to conform to.
Live to the fullest.. Never stop learning. Have fun.. Take yourself out, enjoy your own company. Travel.
If you want to marry, by all means do and to someone who shares similar views as you and someone who knows that you matter as equally as he does.
If you don’t want to get married, let no one shame you into doing so. It’s your life not theirs. Your choice, not theirs.
And know that whatever choices you will be making, you’re complete. You’re Enough, you matter and you’re Unique.
Don’t let anyone deceive you – Your worth is not tied to your marital status, culinary skills or number of children you have.
You matter equally because you’re human.. Break free of any mindset that makes you think something is missing from you or you’re inadequate just because you’re a woman.
The world is yours for the taking if you would dare to dig in and scoop your share of it! I love you… ♥ ♥